FHA & Mortgages..... when do you throw your hand (cards) in?

Client : "It's been 5 months and I am still waiting to close my loan."
You think to yourself, who gives a lender that long of a chance to close their loan. Purchase or refinance. I know we all should not be quick to judge, because things can happen. But how many chances do you give someone? How many broken promises do you hear until you decide to seek other help or advice. In reality, how long do you actually wait?
I work with about 5 to 8 clients per year that go through this same dilemma. They come to me by word of mouth or online after they realize that nothing is happening with their current lender.
I currently have a client that came way of my mortgage blog. They started with this lender back in December of 2006. This loan officer was trying to take them subprime. Now, many of us now about the subprime meltdown which Matt Heaton talks about. But this didn't start to take place until late February and throughout March of this year. So, this loan officer used that excuse. But what happened from the end of March to the end of May? Just one excuse after another.

After
a while, this particular client realized that they couldn't keep their
faith in this loan officer's promises. Even though this loan officer
helped this client with her two previous transactions in the last 5
years. It started to cost her money because they needed to refinance to
cash-out. And the sad thing is that rates have gone up about 1/2 of a
percent in the last 3 months. On this particular mortgage, we are
talking about $88 a month difference. That's $1,056 a year more.
So, I took the application just a few days ago and we'll be closing at the end of the month. I already have an approval and I am taking it FHA. Something that should have been decided 5 months ago.
I'll be writing a Part 2 blog based on this example and what to look for as a client. What signs to look for as your loan is in processing. I want to bring this up because I want to educate the average consumer and to make them aware of the ins and outs of how the mortgage process works. And actually tell you why subprime is good, not evil.

